Dr. Alan Zwerdling, Ph.D, is a highly experienced psychologist and relationship expert specializing in individual counseling, psychotherapy, marriage counseling, couples therapy, family therapy, pre-marriage counseling, Emotionally Focused Therapy, counseling for depression, anxiety, stress, shame, fear, anger management, self-esteem, panic, grief, adjustment issues, conflict resolution, communication, PTSD, trauma, addiction, codependency, recovery, 12-Step, ACoA, alcoholism, drug abuse, affairs, infidelity, cheating, adultery, intimacy, love, dating, separation and divorce counseling, step-family and re-marriage adjustment. His private office serves Red Bank, Middletown, Shrewsbury, Rumson, Navesink, Fair Haven, Holmdel, Colts Neck, Tinton Falls, Ocean Township, Long Branch, Eatontown, Asbury Park, Keyport, Hazlet, Lincroft, Marlboro, Manalapan, Highlands, Atlantic Highlands, Oceanport, Monmouth Beach, Spring Lake, Sea Girt, Manasquan, Oakhurst, Wall Township, Howell, Freehold, Aberdeen, Morganville, Matawan, Monmouth County, and the Jersey Shore, New Jersey. 07701, 07702, 07704, 07712, 07716, 07719, 07722, 07724, 07727, 07728, 07730, 07731, 07732, 07733, 07735, 07737, 07738, 07739, 07740, 07746, 07747, 07748, 07750, 07752, 07753, 07755, 07757, 07760, 07762, 07764.
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"I feel like we have a whole new relationship. For the first time I feel like we are together, like we are a team. I like the way we feel connected and engaged. I really like it".
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
I carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)
-e. e. cummings
The benefits of marriage counseling and couples therapy...
You can stop fighting and put an end to old destructive patterns.
You can learn to communicate and resolve your differences.
You can feel closer and develop a deeper emotional connection than ever before.
You can heal from the pain of the past and restore lost love.
You can discover how to really listen and understand each other.
You can understand each others deepest needs and be able to fulfill them.
You can build trust and feel safer and more secure both now and for the future.
You can count on your partner and know your partner is really there for you.
You can rekindle the spark and feel "in love" again.
You can heal from an affair or infidelity, rebuild trust and safety, and move forward.
You can rediscover an active and satisfying sex life.
You can start having fun again and enjoy being playful and affectionate.
You can have more energy for your work, your family, your friends, your hobbies.
You're world has been turned upside down by an affair or infidelity. Your whole relationship feels like a lie. The feelings of betrayal are overwhelming. It feels like there's no answer.
The key to a loving bond often lies right before our eyes...
But we may not see it until we are taught how to look.
"I truly felt all hope for my nine year marriage was lost. I felt abandoned, isolated and unfulfilled, and the only natural conclusion to our story seemed to be a divorce. Dr. Zwerdling is so compassionate and supportive. He offered us clear validation and helped us to see our strengths and hone in on the issues that kept us disconnected. Now the thought of breaking apart our growing and fulfilling relationship seems out of the question. Any couple having problems has so much to gain by working with Dr. Zwerdling."
"Two years later we are still talking about Dr. Zwerdling and how much couples therapy with him helped us. We learned how to really talk to each other. Now we can share our feelings and we don't get stuck in arguments the way we used to".
"Dr. Zwerdling has been invaluable in helping us show how much we care. We didn't understand how to communicate our feelings and needs. Couples therapy gave us the tools to be much more loving and respectful partners. Every couple should see Dr. Zwerdling".
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"We thought we had a pretty good relationship when we started marriage counseling with Dr. Zwerdling. But after just a few months we discovered how much closer we could be. Our relationship is deeper than ever".
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